Funeral Wreath for a Family Member – Which One to Choose?

What arrangements are most often chosen for the funeral of a grandmother, parents, a cousin, or a colleague from work? Which colors and flowers are most appropriate for the farewell of a close relative, and which for an acquaintance? We answer these questions based on the most popular funeral compositions prepared by Euroflorist florists.


Funeral bouquet for a grandmother or grandfather

The size of a funeral wreath usually depends on the closeness of the relationship with the deceased and on how many people it represents. Grandparents are often those with whom we share a strong emotional bond. At their funeral, we want to express love and gratitude for the wonderful childhood they gave us.

Which wreath for a grandmother?

If you are buying a funeral wreath for a grandmother on behalf of a large group of grandchildren — especially older and adult ones — a single, large shared wreath is often a more beautiful gesture than several smaller arrangements. A grandmother is someone we usually associate with warm memories, deep gratitude, and respect. That is why the most recommended wreaths for a grandmother are, in our view:

A heart-shaped wreath for a grandmother is a particularly meaningful choice. It expresses not only sorrow, but also longing, gratitude, and love. A bouquet for a grandmother’s funeral can also take the form of a coffin decoration or a smaller spray, for example in the shape of a teardrop.

Which wreath for a grandfather?

The same principle applies when choosing a wreath for a grandfather — the larger the group of grandchildren mourning his loss, the larger the arrangement should be. While roses are often chosen for grandmothers, purple tones are especially popular in funeral wreaths for grandfathers.

Which flowers for a grandmother’s or grandfather’s funeral?

Recommended flowers for a grandparent’s funeral include:

  • Chrysanthemums – symbolising grief

  • Carnations – beautiful, long-lasting flowers representing memory and love

  • Roses – timeless and deeply symbolic

  • Their favourite flowers – a personal and heartfelt tribute

Wreath from grandchildren – words matter most

No matter which arrangement you choose for your grandmother or grandfather, the most meaningful element is often the dedication written on the funeral ribbon.
See also: Ribbon Inscriptions for a Grandmother or Grandfather.

Funeral wreath for a mother or father

Losing one’s parents is often one of the most difficult moments in life. We want to ensure that they are farewelled in a dignified and respectful way, with funeral arrangements that truly reflect our sorrow and love.

Which wreath for a mother’s funeral?

At the final farewell to a mother, children most often choose a large, collective wreath. Such an arrangement is a powerful expression of love, closeness, intimacy, gratitude, and deep respect. Funeral wreaths in the shape of a heart are especially common, symbolising the bond that remains eternal.

Which wreath for a father?

Just like at a mother’s funeral, the most commonly chosen arrangements for a father are large wreaths — a clear symbol of love and respect. Funeral wreaths for fathers are very often created in shades of purple, a color that conveys dignity, remembrance, and mourning.

Recommended flowers for a parents’ funeral

  • Chrysanthemums – a symbol of grief

  • Carnations – representing memory and love

  • Roses – a timeless symbol of deep affection

  • Gladiolus – signifying morality and strength of character

  • Their favourite flowers – a personal way to honour your mother or father

No matter which wreath you choose for your parents, the most meaningful element is often the dedication written on the funeral ribbon.
See also: Ribbon Inscriptions for a Mother or Father.

Funeral wreath for a child

The funeral of a child or young person is always an incredibly difficult, often traumatic experience. On this day, we want to choose flowers that express our grief and sorrow, while also showing support for the parents and loved ones.

Most often, flowers for a child’s funeral carry the message “you left us too soon,” which is why wreaths for children or young people are usually white. For girls, white is often combined with pink, while for boys, with light blue.

Many mourners choose light, white arrangements that more than any other flowers symbolise a child’s purity and innocence. Soft, pastel, or cream flowers are also appropriate, while dark tones are generally best avoided.

Recommended flowers for the funeral of a child or young person

  • Lilies, especially white ones

  • Chrysanthemums

  • Carnations

  • Roses – in white, cream, pink, or light blue tones

Which funeral wreath for a (co-)worker?

If a wreath is being sent on behalf of a company — especially for the funeral of a high-ranking, long-serving, or particularly valued employee — it is usually large and significant in size. In such cases, most companies choose the largest wreaths available in the collection, as a formal and respectful tribute.

If the wreath is an informal arrangement, sent from a private collection on behalf of close colleagues from the office, it is usually more modest in form.

In the case of funeral arrangements for employees and co-workers, heart-shaped wreaths are of course avoided, as these are reserved for the closest family members. An essential element, however, is the ribbon with a group dedication.

See also: Formal texts for funeral ribbons.

Which funeral wreath for friends, acquaintances, or strangers?

Sometimes we attend funerals of people we did not know personally, to show support for the bereaved — our relatives, friends, or acquaintances. For the funeral of acquaintances, distant relatives, neighbours, colleagues, or even strangers, simpler arrangements are most often chosen. Symbolic funeral bouquets or medium-sized wreaths are popular, as they provide a respectful tribute without overshadowing the larger wreaths given by the closest family members of the deceased.